She is so upset and though ma face doesn't reflect ma heart even i am .What if she is true?.Ma friend has been dating this guy for the past 4 years and like any other couple they have their own share of fights,clashes,make ups.But right now ma friend feels that ,all the love has vaporised and it isn't as moist as it was ,at the starting of the relationship.Isn't it all in her head?.Love doesn't necessary translate to frequent calls,messages,sugar coated words,letters,gifts.Its all on a different plane for different individuals and now the real issue"WILL LOVE FADE AS TIME PASSES?"
I believe that there are different dimensions to the very word"love".Everyday cannot be a honey moon day.As time passes one kind off takes the parnter as granted.In a relation as time passes love holds a 50%,
adjustment :30%
understanding:10%
responsibility :10%
Its not always about love but the package that comes along.May be in the initial stages the partner takes time to even detect small changes but,years later you will have to fight your slot,tell it out loud for your partner to realise that for an example you have gained weight.Its not about love lost but,all about responsibilities to fulfill and running with the tide of time.
Even after assuring ma self with all these self made theories i still wonder deep down"Won't i react the same way as ma friend did?".Won't we all wish that every day your partner wakes you up with a smile on his/her face,take time to have dinner outside together,spent time alone?.Everyone wishes but,only few blessed ones get a partner of dreams.God bless them.
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