The big news you all were dying to hear, ok let's not stretch it any further: My husband is moving to Cochin on a 2 year stint. He will be staying at his home in Cochin. What about me you ask?, ok!!!I will stay back in Bangalore, probably move to a PG.
Its a decision we took together, I had recently joined this amazing company that gives me an opportunity to shine at my work every single day and husby was so frustrated with his previous job that he was ready to grab in any offer that came his way, and an offer that couldn't be refused it was.
I am quite unsure about how the long distance relation would work out. We had survived a 5 year of 'is par ya us par' and after 1 year of marriage, there misfortune strikes again.
I was quite clear I was not ready to move out of Bangalore owing to many reasons, one being the job other being independence. We were in the process of building a cozy lil place for ourself here in Bangalore and Bam!!! all my dreams came crashing by. Life is going to be really difficult, I used to look forward towards cooking for my husby every evening, used to feel proud when he used to relish my cooking, the mad fun, umpteen seasons of sitcoms left to watch...I can write books on what I will miss..with a barely existent job opportunities in Cochin, a move move means premature death of my career. I have this bad tendency to blame people for my ill luck and I am pretty sure, sitting at home without a job would increase my frustration which would inturn lead to you-me-you blame game. Husby's offer was really something I couldn't deny him of, he deserves his own shining moment too and I wouldn;t be the person to snatch that away from him.
I feel, when we used to be apart in different cities we used to fight more. With proximity came peace and we rarely fight nowadays...I don't know how long this temporary arrangement is gonna work out, but for the time being we have decided to travel to and fro to make our marriage work.
